I'm sorry chillymellow, that was indeed a sad story. I guess they say what doesn't kill us makes us stronger 'eh? I can't say as I ever agreed with that. Every time pain invades our heart, I feel it takes a little away, at a time, until we simply have nothing left to give the next heartache. Sorry for being such a downer. This story made me realize none of us are without our heartaches. Thank you for sharing.